I have this mindset that won’t be broken down for anyone. It is superior, it is courageous and of course it makes me inferior to anyone’s behavior.
It’s a great thing being able to handle your own emotions especially if it is someone’s actions, decision, behavior that caused you to feel a certain way.
In my 20’s I was strong minded but yet naive to life. I mean all I had to reflect on was my teenager days and you really can’t use those mistakes to mold yourself.
When I turned 30 years old was a big deal. I was able to reflect on my mistakes I made as an adult and what I learned was that I was emotionally unstable.

As the years past… At the age 33 I began to see clear… I became hungry for knowledge on controlling my emotions and making myself happy with myself. And BOOM there it was, CLARITY!

The clarity of not letting others affect my attitude.

Once I learned that, I began to become happy inside and out.. I began to forgive others for making me feel a certain way.

Today I try to share what I learned. It hurts me to see others suffer from the actions of others.

It bothers me to see a woman starve for a mans attention. I learned that BAD LOVE is not LOVE but just a challenge we believe to be love.. when the real deal is…we LOVE challenges.

LOVE does not make you sad.

The End.





Lack of passion is fatal.

  • 1. Darling, the world’s not really against you. The only thing that’s against you is yourself.


    2. There is something beautiful about all scars, whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with.


    3. Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your life…you give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness so simple a phrase like “maybe we should be friends” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

    4. I feel like everything in my life has led me to you. My choices, my heartbreaks, my regrets. Everything. And when we’re together, my past seems worth it. Because if I had done one thing differently, I might have never met you.

    5. It’s crazy because I don’t even know when you became so important to me. It’s like watching a snowstorm. You see the flakes falling, but you don’t realize how they’re adding up. Then suddenly, your whole lawn is covered. All these little things have added up, and you’re my snowstorm.


    6. God causes things to happen at exactly the right time! Your job is not to figure out when, but to make up your mind that you won’t give up until you cross the finish line and are living in the radical, outrageous blessings of God! The more you trust Jesus and keep your eyes focused on Him, the more life you’ll have. Trusting God brings life. Believing brings rest. So stop trying to figure everything out, and let God be God  in your life.


    7. You know when sometimes you meet someone so beautiful and then you actually talk to them and five minutes later, they’re as dull as a brick? Then there’s other people, when you meet them, you think, “Not bad. They’re okay.” And then you get to know them and their face just sort of becomes them. Like their personality’s written all over it.And they just turn into something so beautiful.


    8. Our willingness to wait reveals the value we place on the object we’re waiting for.


    9. Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything beautiful, for beauty is God’s handwriting.

    10. Today, forget your past, forgive yourself, and begin again.

    11.  A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one.


Believe in the power of believing. Believe in fairy tales for what they can teach you about real life. Believe in happy endings, and believe they don’t always happen. Believe in something, anything, that gives you the courage and strength to continue on. Believe it when a friend says you’re beautiful. Believe that you deserve to be happy. Believe that you have choices and that you can choose wisely. Believe in your own intuition. Believe that you can do more with your life than you’re doing, and then do it. Above all, believe in yourself.